relationships.... sheeesh!

I made "tampo" to my sweety a while ago... (or was it me being a green-eyed monster because of jealousy?) I hanged up on him... and din't answer his calls!(until now!) *drama queen*

well here's why, for the past... say two weeks, his ex keeps callin' him askin' him for things.. uhm mainly favors and questions(if you could call it that). At first I was like ok, no biggie!just laughed it off! even if that what's-her-face asked him to sleep over her place (see!!? I wasn't just being a brat!). But the second time.. I was already going gaga...(grrrr!!!) still, I composed myself and told him "Well sweety, it's up to you. You're already big enough to make the right decisions and I trust you." (haha! If he only knew how crazy I was feeling inside!) The third time, which was a while ago... another favor from little-miss-selfish-bitch.. and I just don't understand why he still has to talk to his ex who, according to him is a pathetic loser and made his life miserable and that the only reason he went out with her was because she was a piteous creature and has nowhere to turn to?? And Why does this girl won't stop it?? Sheesh! get a life dahlin' don't be such a big "B".

Don't get me wrong, It's ok to talk to your ex even be good friends with them, I mean my best guy bud is my ex for pete's sake but not like that... asking him to sleep at your place knowing that the guy already has a girlfriend, that is just incredibly low-down unethical!

I am not being possessive... nuh uh! this is me just trying to make him understand that it has to stop. Oh c'mon! Is it that hard to be a little sensitive to your partner's feelings?? I mean I know for a fact that if this is the other way around he would be bothering me about it or he would constantly say asinine things because of that...(believe me, I would never hear the end of it!) so why can't he just for a second put his feet in my shoes and just tell her to back off??!!

What makes me so mad is that when he already new the first time that the girl is bad news to this relationship of ours, why does he still talk to her? are guys really that insecure that they have to make us feel so bad just to make them feel better? Do they really think that by doing these things we would love them more??? well, I do hope not... I really do hope not!

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[iRiSh]

Ha! The last time i told my boy to go talk to his ex to finally have a proper closure with her....they ended up together again...yeah well she assumed that's why he went but stl to cut it short they ended up together like for a month...and then kami ulit until now. (hehehe!) Ms. assuming si potah. Anyways, she was definitely bad news, and it sounds like your sweety's ex is a bit below the belt narin...very unethical as you say! sometimes guys can really be insensitive noh...i mean can't they put their shoes into ours before they make any weird decisions, instead of asking even?!

[-Trini-]

OMG!!! hahaha! I don't think I would want him ending up with her again even for a month... all he has to do is chose... Me or her... that easy... If it's me he chooses then I don't want to hear anything about that little slut again... no calls no text msgs... if it's her... then I'll let him go.. I won't fight with a girl just because of a guy... never... winkywinkwink**

[iRiSh]

You go girl!...yeah well if he knew what was good for him he'd make up his mind already! and choose you! *wink*
Believe it or not same goes for some girls as well! it's very rare but it's a sad reality that there're some girls who're also downright losers...caught in the act but still denying it. - this is based on ur comment on my thingy